diff --git a/availabili.tf/src/assets/main.css b/availabili.tf/src/assets/main.css
index 819edc2..98f1900 100644
--- a/availabili.tf/src/assets/main.css
+++ b/availabili.tf/src/assets/main.css
@@ -271,7 +271,7 @@ hr {
   /*box-shadow: 0 0 4px var(--text);*/
 }
 
-div[role="menu"] {
+[role="menu"] {
   background-color: var(--base);
   border: 1px solid var(--overlay-0);
   border-radius: 4px;
@@ -279,22 +279,22 @@ div[role="menu"] {
   min-width: 8rem;
 }
 
-div[role="menu"] button {
+[role="menu"] button {
   background-color: var(--base);
   width: 100%;
   border-radius: 0;
 }
 
-div[role="menu"] button.destructive {
+[role="menu"] button.destructive {
   color: var(--destructive);
 }
 
-div[role="menu"] button.destructive:hover {
+[role="menu"] button.destructive:hover {
   background-color: var(--destructive);
   color: var(--base);
 }
 
-div[role="menu"] button > i.bi.margin {
+[role="menu"] button > i.bi.margin {
   margin-right: 0.5em;
 }
 /*
@@ -309,7 +309,7 @@ div[role="menu"] div[role="menuitem"]:last-child button {
 }
 */
 
-div[role="menu"] button:hover {
+[role="menu"] button:hover {
   background-color: var(--surface-0);
   width: 100%;
 }
diff --git a/availabili.tf/src/client/index.ts b/availabili.tf/src/client/index.ts
index 45058cf..49bd56f 100644
--- a/availabili.tf/src/client/index.ts
+++ b/availabili.tf/src/client/index.ts
@@ -11,6 +11,7 @@ export { OpenAPI } from './core/OpenAPI';
 export type { OpenAPIConfig } from './core/OpenAPI';
 
 export type { AddPlayerJson } from './models/AddPlayerJson';
+export type { AttendanceJson } from './models/AttendanceJson';
 export type { AvailabilitySchema } from './models/AvailabilitySchema';
 export type { CreateEventJson } from './models/CreateEventJson';
 export type { CreateTeamJson } from './models/CreateTeamJson';
diff --git a/availabili.tf/src/client/models/AttendanceJson.ts b/availabili.tf/src/client/models/AttendanceJson.ts
new file mode 100644
index 0000000..fbba659
--- /dev/null
+++ b/availabili.tf/src/client/models/AttendanceJson.ts
@@ -0,0 +1,8 @@
+/* generated using openapi-typescript-codegen -- do not edit */
+/* istanbul ignore file */
+/* tslint:disable */
+/* eslint-disable */
+export type AttendanceJson = {
+    confirm: boolean;
+};
+
diff --git a/availabili.tf/src/client/services/DefaultService.ts b/availabili.tf/src/client/services/DefaultService.ts
index 9acdd5a..ffb0f33 100644
--- a/availabili.tf/src/client/services/DefaultService.ts
+++ b/availabili.tf/src/client/services/DefaultService.ts
@@ -3,6 +3,7 @@
 /* tslint:disable */
 /* eslint-disable */
 import type { AddPlayerJson } from '../models/AddPlayerJson';
+import type { AttendanceJson } from '../models/AttendanceJson';
 import type { CreateEventJson } from '../models/CreateEventJson';
 import type { CreateTeamJson } from '../models/CreateTeamJson';
 import type { EditMemberRolesJson } from '../models/EditMemberRolesJson';
@@ -197,11 +198,13 @@ export class DefaultService {
     /**
      * attend_event <PUT>
      * @param eventId
+     * @param requestBody
      * @returns EventWithPlayerSchema OK
      * @throws ApiError
      */
     public attendEvent(
         eventId: number,
+        requestBody?: AttendanceJson,
     ): CancelablePromise<EventWithPlayerSchema> {
         return this.httpRequest.request({
             method: 'PUT',
@@ -209,6 +212,8 @@ export class DefaultService {
             path: {
                 'event_id': eventId,
             },
+            body: requestBody,
+            mediaType: 'application/json',
             errors: {
                 422: `Unprocessable Content`,
             },
diff --git a/availabili.tf/src/components/EventCard.vue b/availabili.tf/src/components/EventCard.vue
index 91b16cf..0efc48e 100644
--- a/availabili.tf/src/components/EventCard.vue
+++ b/availabili.tf/src/components/EventCard.vue
@@ -6,6 +6,7 @@ import { useTeamsEventsStore } from "@/stores/teams/events";
 import moment from "moment";
 import { computed } from "vue";
 import EventCardDropdown from "./EventCardDropdown.vue";
+import EventConfirmButton from "./EventConfirmButton.vue";
 const teamsStore = useTeamsStore();
 const rosterStore = useRosterStore();
 const teamEventsStore = useTeamsEventsStore();
@@ -46,16 +47,13 @@ function attend() {
   teamEventsStore.attendEvent(props.event.event.id);
 }
 
-function unattend() {
-  teamEventsStore.unattendEvent(props.event.event.id);
+function pending() {
+  console.log("pending");
+  teamEventsStore.attendEvent(props.event.event.id, false);
 }
 
-function attendOrUnattend() {
-  if (props.event.playerEvent?.hasConfirmed) {
-    unattend();
-  } else {
-    attend();
-  }
+function unattend() {
+  teamEventsStore.unattendEvent(props.event.event.id);
 }
 </script>
 
@@ -87,30 +85,12 @@ function attendOrUnattend() {
         <em v-else class="subtext">No description provided.</em>
       </div>
       <div class="button-group">
-        <button
-          @click="attendOrUnattend()"
-          v-if="event.playerEvent"
-          :class="{
-            'class-info': true,
-            'confirmed': event.playerEvent.hasConfirmed,
-          }"
-        >
-          <template v-if="!event.playerEvent.hasConfirmed">
-            <i class="bi bi-check2" />
-            Confirm
-          </template>
-          <template v-else>
-            <i class="bi bi-check2-all" />
-            Confirmed
-          </template>
-          <span v-if="event.playerEvent.role">
-            as {{ rosterStore.roleNames[event.playerEvent.role.role] }}
-          </span>
-        </button>
-        <button @click="attend" v-else>
-          <i class="bi bi-check2" />
-          Attend
-        </button>
+        <EventConfirmButton
+          :playerEvent="event.playerEvent"
+          @attend="attend"
+          @pending="pending"
+          @unattend="unattend"
+        />
       </div>
     </div>
   </div>
@@ -193,9 +173,4 @@ h3 {
   justify-content: space-between;
   align-items: center;
 }
-
-button.confirmed {
-  background-color: var(--text);
-  color: var(--base);
-}
 </style>
diff --git a/availabili.tf/src/components/EventConfirmButton.vue b/availabili.tf/src/components/EventConfirmButton.vue
new file mode 100644
index 0000000..db143d2
--- /dev/null
+++ b/availabili.tf/src/components/EventConfirmButton.vue
@@ -0,0 +1,132 @@
+<script setup lang="ts">
+import type { PlayerEventRolesSchema } from "@/client";
+import { useRosterStore } from "@/stores/roster";
+import {
+  DropdownMenuRoot,
+  DropdownMenuTrigger,
+  DropdownMenuContent,
+  DropdownMenuItem,
+  DropdownMenuPortal,
+  DropdownMenuRadioItem,
+  DropdownMenuRadioGroup,
+  DropdownMenuItemIndicator,
+} from "radix-vue";
+import { computed } from "vue";
+
+const rosterStore = useRosterStore();
+
+const props = defineProps<{
+  playerEvent: PlayerEventRolesSchema | null;
+}>();
+
+const emit = defineEmits<{
+  attend: [],
+  unattend: [],
+  pending: [],
+}>();
+
+function attendOrUnattend() {
+  if (props.playerEvent?.hasConfirmed) {
+    emit("unattend");
+  } else {
+    emit("attend");
+  }
+}
+
+const confirmationOptions = ["Attending", "Pending", "Not attending"];
+
+const selectedOption = computed({
+  get() {
+    if (props.playerEvent?.hasConfirmed) {
+      return "Attending";
+    } else if (props.playerEvent?.hasConfirmed === false) {
+      return "Pending";
+    } else {
+      return "Not attending";
+    }
+  },
+  set(value: string) {
+    console.log(value);
+    if (value === "Attending") {
+      emit("attend");
+    } else if (value === "Not attending") {
+      emit("unattend");
+    } else {
+      emit("pending");
+    }
+  },
+});
+</script>
+
+<template>
+  <div
+    :class="{
+      'event-confirm-button': true,
+      'confirmed': playerEvent?.hasConfirmed,
+    }"
+  >
+    <button
+      @click="attendOrUnattend()"
+      v-if="playerEvent"
+      class="class-info left recolor"
+    >
+      <template v-if="!playerEvent.hasConfirmed">
+        <i class="bi bi-check2" />
+        Confirm
+      </template>
+      <template v-else>
+        <i class="bi bi-check2-all" />
+        Attending
+      </template>
+      <span v-if="playerEvent.role">
+        as {{ rosterStore.roleNames[playerEvent.role.role] }}
+      </span>
+    </button>
+    <button v-else @click="emit('attend')" class="left">
+      <i class="bi bi-check2" />
+      Attend
+    </button>
+    <DropdownMenuRoot>
+      <DropdownMenuTrigger className="right recolor">
+        <i class="bi bi-caret-down-fill" />
+      </DropdownMenuTrigger>
+      <DropdownMenuPortal>
+        <DropdownMenuContent>
+          <DropdownMenuRadioGroup v-model="selectedOption">
+            <DropdownMenuRadioItem
+              v-for="option in confirmationOptions"
+              as="button"
+              :value="option"
+            >
+              <DropdownMenuItemIndicator>
+                <i class="bi bi-check" />
+              </DropdownMenuItemIndicator>
+              {{ option }}
+            </DropdownMenuRadioItem>
+          </DropdownMenuRadioGroup>
+        </DropdownMenuContent>
+      </DropdownMenuPortal>
+    </DropdownMenuRoot>
+  </div>
+</template>
+
+<style scoped>
+.event-confirm-button {
+  display: flex;
+  gap: 2px;
+}
+
+.left {
+  border-radius: 4px 0 0 4px;
+}
+
+.right {
+  border-radius: 0 4px 4px 0;
+  padding: 6px 12px;
+}
+
+.confirmed button.recolor {
+  background-color: var(--text);
+  color: var(--base);
+}
+</style>
diff --git a/availabili.tf/src/stores/teams/events.ts b/availabili.tf/src/stores/teams/events.ts
index c6b8eed..7181260 100644
--- a/availabili.tf/src/stores/teams/events.ts
+++ b/availabili.tf/src/stores/teams/events.ts
@@ -21,12 +21,15 @@ export const useTeamsEventsStore = defineStore("teamsEvents", () => {
     );
   }
 
-  async function attendEvent(eventId: number) {
-    return client.default.attendEvent(eventId)
+  async function attendEvent(eventId: number, confirm = true) {
+    return client.default.attendEvent(eventId, {
+      confirm,
+    })
       .then((response) => {
         let index = teamEvents[response.event.teamId]
           .findIndex((event) => event.event.id == response.event.id);
         teamEvents[response.event.teamId][index] = response;
+        return response;
       });
   }
 
diff --git a/backend-flask/events.py b/backend-flask/events.py
index af2ff6c..ec967a7 100644
--- a/backend-flask/events.py
+++ b/backend-flask/events.py
@@ -143,6 +143,9 @@ def create_event(player_team: PlayerTeam, team_id: int, json: CreateEventJson, *
 
     return EventSchema.from_model(event).dict(by_alias=True), 200
 
+class AttendanceJson(BaseModel):
+    confirm: bool
+
 @api_events.put("/<int:event_id>/attendance")
 @spec.validate(
     resp=Response(
@@ -151,7 +154,7 @@ def create_event(player_team: PlayerTeam, team_id: int, json: CreateEventJson, *
     operation_id="attend_event",
 )
 @requires_authentication
-def attend_event(player: Player, event_id: int, **_):
+def attend_event(player: Player, event_id: int, json: AttendanceJson, **_):
     event = db.session.query(Event).where(Event.id == event_id).one_or_none()
 
     if not event:
@@ -175,7 +178,7 @@ def attend_event(player: Player, event_id: int, **_):
         player_event.player_id = player.steam_id
         db.session.add(player_event)
 
-    player_event.has_confirmed = True
+    player_event.has_confirmed = json.confirm
 
     db.session.commit()